tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post8651705876544926841..comments2024-03-13T11:52:49.397-07:00Comments on Infertile in the City: Halloween Blizzardnewbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02779719410948226318noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post-61601332671651283072011-11-01T09:07:59.794-07:002011-11-01T09:07:59.794-07:00Wait a moment. Are you getting married at the same...Wait a moment. Are you getting married at the same time as all this?!! Wow, talk about a lot on. Hopefully though each will distract from the other at the whenever you need a break from one.<br /><br />Best of luck.Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07336643483655255680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post-89276825440745271322011-10-31T17:51:23.351-07:002011-10-31T17:51:23.351-07:00Thank you so much for sharing that link! I really...Thank you so much for sharing that link! I really enjoyed reading her articles! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Wow, you do have a lot on your plate right now. Yes!!! You have to post photos!! :-)kharinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06760406074795967083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post-44636272645158963712011-10-30T19:40:50.754-07:002011-10-30T19:40:50.754-07:00oh and finally - have a GREAT wedding! pics please...oh and finally - have a GREAT wedding! pics please!Chonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11078580707826544482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post-38090335487783654152011-10-30T19:40:24.656-07:002011-10-30T19:40:24.656-07:00It's totally normal (well in my opinion) to fe...It's totally normal (well in my opinion) to feel a bit negative. You have to for your own sanity. I think that ultimately I get more stressed out from trying to remain positive. When chippie said to me stop stressing it made me feel that if it didn't work it was a result of me stressing and being upset. It is a crock, there is no medical evidence to suggest that stressing out causing you to fail IVF. Gee I went off on a tangent there.<br /><br />You have so much on at the moment so make sure you take some time out for you as well. This last cycle a few of us did a creativity / inspiration challenge to distract us. The benefit was I spent a lot of time doing things just for me, not for other people which was super important. And I am not going to say it only takes ONE, fk that drove me crazy when people said that to me!!!!!Chonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11078580707826544482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post-83674512262179262192011-10-30T19:28:27.763-07:002011-10-30T19:28:27.763-07:00We always hope for the best while preparing for th...We always hope for the best while preparing for the worst. I'm also always saying, "hey, can't say I didn't try." I know, cliches, but it gets me through. I remember hearing Dr. S.h.er saying at a seminar that egg quality can vary greatly every month, and he used his daughter as an example of having all abnormal eggs one cycle, but the next cycle had like half normal or something like that. My point is, you never know! I didn't know you were getting ready for a wedding! Hope it's fabulous!Libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06957887707439694944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post-47470288442601923562011-10-30T13:58:38.969-07:002011-10-30T13:58:38.969-07:00How exciting you wedding is next week. That will d...How exciting you wedding is next week. That will definitely help take your mind off things. Have Fun! Don't worry about how you sound in your posts. I try to be super honest on how I am always feeling and IF sucks. It's not fun and it's not fair. I was a mess throughout the entire IVF process and some days are definitely better than others. Hang in there.justagirl-Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09074086694446760413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post-13172146239245136772011-10-29T12:20:35.258-07:002011-10-29T12:20:35.258-07:00Newbie - it is so hard to keep emotions from swing...Newbie - it is so hard to keep emotions from swinging wildly from one extreme to the other. I found that it was so much easier for other people to be positive for me. I really hope that this cycle works for you! You are doing everything possible to make it happen, so you can at least take comfort in this and just trust that CCRM will turn your luck around. Enjoy your wedding week!Frankie Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03016774250490340149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461131293578518418.post-63906916891360816222011-10-29T11:13:55.125-07:002011-10-29T11:13:55.125-07:00It's OK to not be positive all of the time - I...It's OK to not be positive all of the time - I don't think it's normal. I try to stay optimistic, but as you said you have to balance that with reality and prepare that things could go either way. I think that's much healthier personally. Good luck with all of the wedding stuff!! You need to post a wedding day pic!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04967951792506945537noreply@blogger.com