The Not-So-Sexy Infertility Adventures of a Girl in the Big Apple

Monday, July 30, 2012

26 Weeks - Getting Youge

Wow, it's been a while since I posted last.  I keep meaning to put together a post but lately I've been much more interested in reading and commenting than writing.

Things are going really well in general.  I still feel pretty good, although my feet definitely get sore a lot faster these days when I stand for long periods of time.  Belly is really growing - weight gain of about (gulp!) 28 - 30 lbs already!  I am definitely going to be mid 40 lbs, maybe more, before this is all through.  Sleep is so-so.  I still get up 2 - 3 times in the night to pee, and lately I've been finding that around 6:30 / 7:00am I wake up and can't get back to sleep very easily.  Kind of a bummer because in theory I should be trying to get as much sleep as possible right now, but what can I do?

I had my last ultrasound appointment about a week ago, and all was well.  The babies were measuring a bit ahead of average at almost 2 lbs each.  No wonder my belly is big, I have 4 lbs of baby in there already!  I was pleased to see that they are pretty close in weight - a couple of ounces difference, but nothing too major.  My cervix was measuring nice and long at 3.7cm.  My biggest source of nervousness right now is preterm labor, so it was good to know that I don't seem to be in any imminent danger, but of course that can all change overnight.

Next up is my gestational diabetes test - I'm kinda worried about this one.  It's a lot more common with twins apparently, so really hoping I pass.  We shall see.

We hosted a baby shower at our apartment yesterday, and it was a lot of fun.  We did a very non-traditional, co-ed affair with lots of good food and good company.  My husband and I did a lot of cooking and prep and I think it turned out beautifully, although we were both pretty exhausted afterwards.  People were so sweet though - we got a lot of beautiful gifts already, and many more seem to be arriving via the registry.  Getting all of these gifts is making it all seem really real somehow.

It's going to be a very social couple of weeks - I have a good friend in town tomorrow, then my husband's work outing in the Hamptons this weekend, and then my mom comes to stay with me next week.  I'm looking forward to having her, although her level of anxiety about my pregnancy gets wearing at times.  If I don't call her back right away she instantly assumes something is wrong and starts worrying and fretting and calling again.  I really hope I don't end up like this with my own kids, but never say never.

I have decided for this reason that the first few weeks after the babies are born will just be for me, my husband, and a baby nurse.  After that we will have my parents come to stay, but no sooner - I think I will need a little time to adjust first before dealing with all of that stress and anxiety.  Sometimes my mother's idea of "help" is not so helpful!

I leave you with a couple belly shots from about a week ago - I deliberately chose the ones that are more flattering and where I look smaller.  Believe me when I say there are plenty where I look absolutely huge!


  1. Well you picked well because you look fantastic! So cute, and definitely all baby(ies!). glad you guys are doing great and flying through milestones. 26 weeks is fantastic and sounds like all is well! As for the weight, sounds like you are right on track for 2 healthy babes, don't worry about it at all!

  2. are one fabulous mama :-) You look great!! So glad its all going well, and as I remarked in another blog, it seems that pregnancies are just flying by. I cannot believe you are 26 weeks already.

    The baby shower sounds really fun. I can understand about having your parents come in a couple of weeks after the birth. It will help you and hubby get a bit accustomed to the babies before all the unsolicited advice starts coming in. I think mothers cannot help themselves :-)

    Enjoy the Hamptons.

  3. Adorable newbie! I love that belly! So cute!

  4. You look GREAT! I honestly can't believe you have twins in there you look so good! Glad things are going well. I too have felt the same about posting. I have been enjoying reading and commenting too.

  5. Newbie, you could be in a fit pregnancy magazine! You look adorable! I'm glad all is looking good with the twins. I am definitely on board with your decision to have the 1st two weeks to yourself after the babies are born. Parents and in laws are not helpful right after & you are going to want time to get to know these babies! I had a pretty bad hormone crash after & houseguests made it so much worse! I can't believe you are 26 wks already, so exciting!

  6. You look beautiful! That's great you will have a baby nurse - I have to agree that having Mom around later might be better. It's just so exhausting during the first couple weeks and your hormones are all over the place. Sounds like babies are thriving and measuring a good size. 26 weeks - good job, mama!

  7. I read your ER and ET journey over and over during this past cycle and just wanted you to know how much your story gives me hope.

    Congrats on your beautiful belly! So excited for you!

  8. Ah newbie! Beautiful pics - you look fantastic!! Good luck on your GD test - I hope you pass with flying colours!

  9. Oh my goodness, you look so cute! Glad to hear you and the babies are doing so well :)